Being afraid of what people will think about your own
arguments is the number one reason why some individuals decide to not share
what they think. Most of the time, our mind turns around the possible reactions
that the receptor could have after we have said something: the reaction we set
in our mind is, most of the time, negative. By doing this, we are setting
ourselves down, because we never know how things will develop for us.
Thinking of yourself being judged is another
misconception you create in your mind. There is no doubt we will be judged by
being alienated with certain ideas; the problem here is how we interpret others’ judgments. Depending on the circumstances we
live, the education we receive, the people we’re surrounded by and other
aspects, we will develop different methods to “process” incoming information in
our brain; therefore, all the reasons why we feel we are going to be attacked
can be changed.
In conclusion, people who decide to remain quiet go against their own rights. Fearing how your arguments will be judged by others causes a negative impact in other people. Thus, it is of utmost importance to consider how we can be directly affected in the future if we don't take a shot and speak up for ourselves.
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